I love to snuggle up with my husband in the evenings and
watch a good show on Netflix. It’s just
so nice to curl up with him and relax after a day of running around the house
doing whatever needs doing, running the kids wherever they need to go, making
sure homework gets done, dinner is fixed and cleaned up, etc. It’s comforting. It’s safe.
It’s my happy place. We sit
together and unwind while watching comedies and crime, love stories and life
stories.
Most of the things we watch involve couples of various ages
and stages. Most of the time, my husband
and I look at each other and say, wow, I’m so glad we aren’t like that as a
couple! So many of the couples portrayed
on television these days are a less than stellar example of what a loving,
committed couple should look like. We as
wives need to be careful of who we look up to in this fallen world. Often, the couples on TV are disrespectful
of each other, quick to anger and defense, and selfishness prevails rather than
love and compassion. The “virtuous wife”
spoken of in Proverbs 31:10 is indeed hard to find if you’re looking at the
television. Our society glorifies their
definition of “strong women.” The definition
of a strong woman according to today’s society seems to be this: a woman who
leads her man around by his nose, telling him what to do and how to do it,
doing what she wants when she wants to do it, and generally living life on her
own terms. Television characters like
Laura on the Walking Dead, Lily on How I Met Your Mother, Cersei Lannister on
Game of Thrones, Temperance Brennen on Bones, and Alison on Medium are examples
of society’s definition and ideal as far as strong women are concerned. I don’t think there is anything wrong with
watching these shows, but I do think that we need to be very careful about
idealizing these characters and emulating them.
It should be our daily prayer as wives for the Lord to shape us into the
biblical version of a strong woman.
If you read through Proverbs 31:10-31, you will see exactly
how God defines a strong woman. His Word
tells us that this kind of woman is so valuable that she can’t even be compared
to one of the most precious gemstones known to man! I don’t know about you, but I would far rather
be this valuable to my husband than to try and emulate society’s standards and
fall despairingly short of God’s.
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